There’s a pattern I see constantly in coaching: you meet someone who is exciting, charming, emotionally intense—and somehow unavailable.
They’re inconsistent. They give you just enough attention to keep you hopeful, then pull away. You
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Why You Keep Choosing People Who Can’t Choose You
JJessica Olsen
August 16, 2026
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